Congratulations on your Baby!
And welcome to an amazing journey!
Right now you are starting this journey and it might be difficult. There are possibly many "what ifs" going through your brain and it might be hard to comprehend what exactly it means to have a child with Down syndrome. By now the doctors have most likely talked to you about medical issues that are possible and what you might expect for the future. But remember this, your baby is an individual! Your baby may or may not have medical issues. Your baby will have their individual strengths and weaknesses in life. And your baby will not be just like the baby described to you because no one knows what your baby will be like.
You might feel overwhelmed and feel like crying. That is okay. Cry! Let go of the hurt, anger, and frustration you have. You may need to mourn the loss of the baby you were expecting so that you can truly celebrate the joy of the baby you have. Then look at your baby. Your baby is here! Your baby is a baby first, not his/her diagnosis! Your baby loves you! Your baby will be happy! Celebrate your baby!
Soon your baby will be changing and growing. Before you know it, it will be their first birthday. And you will be amazed at how far you and your baby have come in one short year.
Congratulations!
With Love,
Heather Ascherl
Bradyn's Mom
